I love your saying "I personally don't know what Jeff Traylor thinks or believes" and, without missing a beat you proceed to say "the lack of respect he was shown when he came in by the offensive coordinator, has to not sit well with him. Especially if he does believe he has the ability to be a college OC."
For someone who personally doesn't know what Traylor thinks or believes, you sure came to a conclusion about what he thinks or believes rather quickly.
Traylor has been out of high school coaching for barely 10 months. If he really thinks he is ready to take over a major D1 program, he needs to show he can deal with a "toxic" environment in offensive team meetings, which doesn't seem to be the case. Understanding team chemistry at the major college level isn't something that is demonstrated by coaching high school football. It is demonstrated by coaching at the college level for more than ten months. Team players don't say "I've almost been here a year. We had a losing season. Show me the money!"
As for measuring yourself by what others are getting paid, that's the small minded game. Judge yourself by how you are performing up to your own expectations. If you are doing well, the money will come. Again, Traylor hasn't even been coaching at the college level for even a year. Bitching about his mistreatment isn't going to endear him to many up and coming coaches, almost all of which are younger than he is. I think Barry Odom at Mizzou is 10 years younger than Traylor. Odom needs stability. You don't entice a boss looking for stability by impressing upon him your demands for money when you haven't delivered above the high school level.
Traylor has a lot to learn. From what people say, he has a lot to offer, but if he wants to start playing the money game 10 months into his college career and before he has been part of at least one winning season at the college level, he needs to be encouraged to move on. Traylor was paid a base salary of $260,000 this year and tripled, if not quadrupled his pay moving from the high school ranks to being a member of the UT staff last year. He is already getting paid in the top 25% of all assistant coaches at the D1 level. One losing season and he feels he should at least double his salary again and match the new O-Line coach at $550k were he would be in the top 5% of all D1 assistant coaches?! I don't care if that doesn't sit well with Traylor. He hasn't earned that.