That whole late start isn’t something people make up. Point to one person and 100 doesn’t change anything. People love to bring up MLK during his birthday and post quotes. Do people not read his quotes or listen to his words.. here’s a link, to watch the video in it, it may help you.
https://medium.com/@joshdance/source-of-mlk-cruel-jest-to-say-to-a-bootless-man-interview-quote-4b71105dee35
Also there were many African Americans who joined the military to try to give there family a prosperous future. Read up on the GI Bill and African Americans.
https://www.google.com/amp/s/www.history.com/.amp/news/gi-bill-black-wwii-veterans-benefits
Or how about when African Americans did gain generational wealth, like Black Wall Street. She what happened to them?? Or countless times when white people would come and set a black family’s house on fire. They destroyed people’s homes and took their land. And those families were never compensated for that. We’ve had to overcome a lot of things man. It’s ok to admit there may have been some oppression.
As for what your friends say. They don’t speak for the race as a whole. I have never had any issues with police but I have dealt with racism. So what does it matter that they haven’t? We are witnessing racism daily. You have what 10 black friends? What % is the African American population do they represent?? And 1 friend. 1 friend. Told you something and you have to run and tell the world. See black people are racists too. Yet in the same breath you say this friend can’t say it because other black people will hate him?? Why is that? Because he’s saying things maybe they don’t agree with? Idk. But I do know that it’s odd you wanted to point that out & talk about 1 black persons opinion. You have thousands of black people saying somethings wrong with police and you aren’t buying that? You have how many players saying they are offended by The Eyes but hey what do they know? 1 friend. 1 friend. Says black people are racists as whites and you call it gospel to be spread to the masses. You’re telling on yourself my guy.