Sometimes it stings the soul

[LinuxHorn]

Sorry to hear MrTaylorDuck. Keep your head up. To make you feel any better, kinda confused in my personal life too. I don't understand men.

We aren't that difficult

 

[mrtaylorduck]

And i blew it with the love of my life. Real dumb. Trying to play that game. I'm not cut out for it.

 

[bbdude]

 

[SFlonghorngirl]

We aren't that difficult

LOL....I think it's me! So confused. In a relationship but on recent trip to NYC, met up with old flame. Feelings for both......sigh....Glad I've decided I never want to get married ever.

 

[SFlonghorngirl]

And i blew it with the love of my life. Real dumb. Trying to play that game. I'm not cut out for it.

Like SHA said, get a booty call. Make ya feel better. Drink alot. It's normal. Then try online dating.

 

[mrtaylorduck]

This shit has got me figured out right now.

 

[Sirhornsalot]

Like SHA said, get a booty call. Make ya feel better. Drink alot. It's normal. Then try online dating.

Or just improve your form tackling.

 

[bbdude]

This shit has got me figured out right now.

My favorite band of the modern ages.

 

[LinuxHorn]

LOL....I think it's me! So confused. In a relationship but on recent trip to NYC, met up with old flame. Feelings for both......sigh....Glad I've decided I never want to get married ever.

A question you have to ask yourself is if you were drawn to old flame due to lack of closure or dissatisfaction in some way from your current relationship.

 

[JimR]

Sorry to hear MrTaylorDuck. Keep your head up. To make you feel any better, kinda confused in my personal life too. I don't understand men.

You were with the wrong one.

 

[mrtaylorduck]

Like SHA said, get a booty call. Make ya feel better. Drink alot. It's normal. Then try online dating.

I've never met SHA but I consider him a friend. Been reading his posts for a long time on multiple sites.

That said, I can get sex. Most reasonable people can. I don't care about that. It's not even on the radar for me.

I'm real tired of being undesirable as a person. I can't figure it out. I feel like i'm impenetrable, but as soon as someone cracks my shit just a little bit, what comes out is not what anyone wants. No changing that I don't think.

(I'm not cutting my hair)

 

[SFlonghorngirl]

A question you have to ask yourself is if you were drawn to old flame due to lack of closure or dissatisfaction in some way from your current relationship.

Old flame first true love. Current relationship, got me over old flame. Both have their pros and cons. Sigh.....

 

[mrtaylorduck]

A question you have to ask yourself is if you were drawn to old flame due to lack of closure or dissatisfaction in some way from your current relationship.

It's a landmine for my brain when I start thinking about how I ended that relationship. I was young, but she asked if I loved her still, and I lied. And that was it. She's married now with a family. She made the right call. It's much better that I didn't tell the truth that day.

That's one of those moments that you can't get back. That's one of those moments that you carry around in your back pocket like your wallet. That moment never leaves you.

She's much better off.

 

[SFlonghorngirl]

I've never met SHA but I consider him a friend. Been reading his posts for a long time on multiple sites.
That said, I can get sex. Most reasonable people can. I don't care about that. It's not even on the radar for me.

I'm real tired of being undesirable as a person. I can't figure it out. I feel like i'm impenetrable, but as soon as someone cracks my $#@! just a little bit, what comes out is not what anyone wants. No changing that I don't think.

(I'm not cutting my hair)

Have you considered seeing a counselor? That could help bunches. Could be issues that aren't physical.

 

[LinuxHorn]

Old flame first true love. Current relationship, got me over old flame. Both have their pros and cons. Sigh.....

That's any relationship, but your current old man was a rebound. Rebounds in that situation almost never work out.

 

[SFlonghorngirl]

That's any relationship, but your current old man was a rebound. Rebounds in that situation almost never work out.

Current one actually not rebound. Dated around after old flame breakup. Finally settled with current one. Then old flame out of the blue early last year texted he loved me. I never responded back. But was in NYC for work and wanted to catch up. There was lots of chemistry like before. I have more in common with old flame than current one.

 

[reneg_2]

Get it all out tonight. All of it. Drink, cry, feel sorry for yourself, go on a rant, blame the world, blame yourself, etc. Tomorrow, man up and move on.

 

[mrtaylorduck]

Man I know I'm gonna get some hate, but I came across this one. Got damn.

 

[mrtaylorduck]

Have you considered seeing a counselor? That could help bunches. Could be issues that aren't physical.

Nah, not gonna do that. I know exactly how i feel, I don't need justifications from someone else. I lied when it was all on the line. Nobody can convince me that I was somehow right in that moment.

 

[monarch]

...mrtaylorduck, let's place a halt to the binge drinking. for obviously it's not helping since you are speaking with us. and as for the arbitrary "booty calls" (could this be why you are going through this trauma in the first place) stop allowing folks to use you... and you stop using them. you say that you are 30 years old, well actually in this day and age.. that makes you a (20 yo) do you get it. it's ok to cry a little and be upset my buddy. but at some point you shall need to just grow up, and start to mend your self esteem.

stop worrying about being short and having long hair. are you kidding... this is 2014, live and let live. talk to your parents, acquire a little faith... trust me, you shall be just fine.