I think the key take away from this thread and what McPhaul is trying to say is.
Don't be an ass. If you don't agree with what someone either on this site or elsewhere that is fine and it is fine to discuss your disagreement. Just don't be an ass.
If someone on this site is being an ass, don't be an ass back. The mods will take care of it.
If someone, especially connected in some way to our great university is doing something that you don't like. Discuss it, but don't be an ass.
No one is trying to take away being able to discuss the issue, in this case Red. It should be discussed as it is related to our great program, however there is absolutely no reason to be an ass about it.
What Red said is indefensible. There is no reason to try and defend what he said on this and his comments after the Baylor game. In my book he has lost my respect, not that it will bother him much or at all. However coming on here and trashing him, make us look even worse. Granted it is a private forum, but this is going on everywhere. We can all show our distaste for what he said without being distasteful ourselves.
Now, I understand when you get pissed you say things you later regret. I know I have more times than I like.
Not saying Red deserves anything, just saying be the better man/woman. Discuss it like you have already went through the "hair in strange places" part of your life.