Oh, no! I haven't been following the board lately, and just saw this. I am so sorry, my friend.
I sometimes think of how my life would change without my loving wife, but can't stand to think of it too long. Instead, I hug and kiss her, tell her and try to show her how very much I love her. Then I thank God for sending her to me and I pray for abundant joy for her now and forever under His care and by His grace. And I believe that will happen.
And though I would miss her terribly, there is comfort in knowing that she will enjoy peace and happiness forever in His care.
I know this because that is what I believe about my seventeen year old daughter who was taken from us in 1997. When my heart hurts so badly thinking of what I have lost, I think of what she has gained, and that gives me comfort.
I will pray for your wife's beautiful soul, my friend, and that you will find comfort in knowing how joyful she must be.